Saturday, March 12, 2011

A HodgePodge Kind of Day

Today was a little bit of everything...for everyone.

Maia didn't teach dance this morning, but instead got up early, ate a hearty breakfast (vegetarian...yes, she's still going strong)...


and hobbled off to take the SAT for the first time.


She and Job had spent some time working on test taking tips the night before, since he's pretty fresh from that experience, and she'd also done several rounds of practice tests with Craig throughout the week. When Craig picked her up later, she said she felt really good about the experience...so, we'll now just have to wait and see...agonizing.

Josiah went to his morning music lessons and Johngideon headed off to his awesome art class. (Look at the photos Craig took of what he did today - I'm not sure how the little man gets in and out - I'll have to ask JG for an explanation.)


I ran Gommy over to her "dancie-girl class" then hustled back to make Josiah's spring trombone recital at the Baltimore School for the Arts.




He did great, but I must admit I am usually holding my breath until he's finished, because although this child is musically gifted, he does not particularly care for the whole practice bit. So even though I'd heard him practicing for this recital lately, I wasn't sure it was enough...but it was...his sound was so smooth and mellow...just beautiful to listen to.


Both his BSA TWIGS trombone instructor, Milton Aldana, and his school band teacher, Danni Schmitt, were present, and it was great to get a shot of Josie with both of these wonderful music educators who have taught him so much.


Right after the recital, I ran back to grab Gommy from dance class, where she was in great spirits, while Craig picked up Maia from the SAT site, and then took Josie to his lacrosse practice.

I spent some relaxing time on the couch (with the sun streaming in on me through the deck doors...I absolutely love the greenhouse effect!) with Maia, watching the 25th Anniversary Concert of Les Miserables (which was wonderful). Maia is still on crutches (this is like week nine), but we think we see light at the end of the tunnel, with a new foot and ankle specialist, who has prescribed additional Calcium, Vitamin D and chamomile...and, an interesting little device we'd never heard of called a bone stimulator, which is proven to help broken bones heal up to 68 days quicker.


So Maia pleasantly pulls it out twice a day and spends the 20 minutes necessary to stimulate her bones to draw more of the necessary healing internals to her foot area to help along the bone building and mending. She has been a real trouper throughout this ordeal, and somehow manages to keep her spirits up even as her movement is so limited.

The Gommy girl finally convinced me to head outside with her, and I peaked into the guest bedroom on my way to find shoes and found Job and Johngideon engaged in a brotherly instructional chess game.


Gommy was wearing one of her delightful clothing ensembles that only real "princesses" can put together, and spent time on the swings, and practicing running up the slide (something she learned how to do very recently after much effort), and then scootering on the sidewalk.


In the brisk fresh air, I felt motivated to clean out the garden bed of the daylillies...who are beginning to make their annual appearance!


Can't wait! And, I even was motivated to clear out the petunias' strip of earth by the sidewalk. Maia came outside and encouraged Gommy to hopscotch, and insisted on joining her (on crutches!), Craig arrived home with take-out dinner and groceries, and after the boys all trouped out to help carry them in, they all returned outside to just enjoy the cool-but-pleasant-near-dusk air. Craig pulled out the leaf-blower (he calls my hand rake archaic.  :-)  So the boys scootered, and rode bikes, and chased each other with lacrosse sticks, while Maia watched from the porch steps and I suddenly realized that we were all home together on a Saturday evening...and it felt great!


When it got too dark to see, we all headed inside for clean-ups and "Chinese chicken" and tofu and vegetables, and watched Disney movies and sports and it was wonderful to have everyone under one roof.

And then Job left to go celebrate a friend's birthday, and Maia lay down for a "nap" (she's still "napping" ;o)  and the kiddies eventually went up to bed. And all is well. And I am grateful for the simple joys of home.

Take Care. Much Love.

Friday, March 11, 2011

His Turn!


Since October, Job has been listening to schoolmates celebrate as early decision and early action college acceptances rolled in. Since he decided to apply using the regular decision time frame (to ten colleges no less!) he knew he'd be waiting to hear until about mid-March.

So, it was such a nice surprise to find a big envelope in the mail Wednesday from a college he really likes...and to find out that not only did it contain a glorious acceptance letter...but also...a letter congratulating him on being selected as a recipient of their most prestigious merit scholarship!!!! Oh Joy!!

He feels so blessed and favored by God. We do too! What's really beautiful about this first response is that we've been promising Job for years, as he's taken the most challenging academic program his school offers, and as he's made sacrifices to stay near the very top of his class, that all of his hard work would pay off in the long run. We've encouraged him along the way that he would have his choice of college or university when the time came. Now he's beginning to see the fruits of all that labor..and it's very sweet indeed!

Congratulations Job!

Take Care. Much Love.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Ahh, the Gommy you thought you knew...and a sprinkling of Job!



This was originally part of my Lenten post, but upon reflection, I thought I'd like to separate the two.
I went on a field trip today...well I guess now that would be yesterday ;o)...with Montgomery. It was my kind of field trip. No sloshing through muddy fields in too brisk cold for up-close looks at odiforous (my word) not-so-clean farm animals, while holding hands with and/or running after several pre-schoolers who are not my own...can you tell I've been on one-too-many farm field trips in my past 17.5 years of parenting! (Now that I've said all of that, I'm almost too ashamed to post my wonderful photos from the Gommy girl's fall pumpkin farm field trip...almost...the pictures are just too cute and begging to be shared, so I'm sure they'll find their way onto the blog sometime.)

Back to today (well, yesterday), this was a calm, pleasant less-than-two-hour junket to nearby Goucher College to sit in a comfortable temperature-controlled, spacious auditorium to see a cute four-person musical of "Harry the Dirty Dog." It was interesting, lively-enough to keep the pre-Kindergarteners engaged, and short enough to not require any mental preparation on my part prior to attending. ;-)  We boarded the big yellow school bus (always a big highlight for the Gommy Girl!)...




...rode the ten minutes or so to Goucher, got off right in front of the auditorium doors, filed inside to our reserved row of seats, watched the starting-right-on-time show with interested delight...


...waited comfortably in our seats when the show was over until our bus pulled right back up at the door, filed back onto the bus, and arrived back at the school. True, the bus noise level was intense, but only for the ten-minute drive time. Yes indeed, my kind of field trip.

The only surprise wrench in this otherwise pleasant outing was that Montgomery was not feeling particularly like cooperating after the show was over. She was in one of her highly-challenging obstinate moods, doing things like sitting on the backs of the seats in front of us (invoking Mommy heart-failure), attempting to wander the aisle and flat-out..and I mean bold-faced... refusing to come back my way (invoking Mommy ominous eye-twitching...and not-so-pleasant whispered potential consequences)...thus the photos you see of her (the girl who lives for the flash of a camera) refusing to look my way for a picture...



 Things improved a bit when her school ace Isabella (who our family will love forever!...more on that in a future post) sat with her on the ride back to school.


They had the best time chatting in great detail about their favorite episodes of The Bubble Guppies...




...and laughing at all the wonderful silly things 4-year-old girlfriends laugh about...





So sweet and endearing...until I realized Isabella herself was also in an obstinate mood and refusing to follow basic safety instructions like "sit down while the bus is moving" and "stop playing in the hair of the child in front of you"...to the point that I actually whipped out my cell phone to call her mother (whom I personally know doesn't play that) and let them have a little chat. Fortunately, something distracted her attention and we didn't actually have to get to that point, but I found it rather amusing how very similar she and Gommy are in temperament! My sweet little stubborn Montgomery will practically "run the car into the ditch" rather than follow someone else's "driving instructions." She will see the catastrophe coming and choose -- and I do mean make an actual choice (you can see the moment in her eyes) --  to meet it head-on rather than acknowledge her error. And I saw that tenacity (albeit sorely misguided, yes) in her little buddy Isabella today...for the first time. Interesting...and yes, this dual-combination does make for a highly volatile, yet passionately fierce little friendship. But I really don't think either one of them would have it any other way.

My personal belief is that all of that raw personality and temperament material is deposited there, by God, for very specific purpose. Our job (challenging...yes!!) as parents, is not to change it or break it, but rather to help our little people hone and mold and prune and learn to use all that great "stuff" productively and passionately, but responsibly and measuredly. It's all in there for a reason...we've gotta help them figure out why...and what to do with it all. I believe it'll completely be worth the journey...but it sure does put miles and miles of wear on our "cars" in the meantime!  ;-)

Later that evening at home, to Craig's question of "How was your field trip today, Gommy?" Montgomery apparently experienced some thoughtful moments of reflective remorse and asked me, "Mommy, would you take my picture now?" 

What's a mother to do? Well, I suppose we must take our cue from God...sometimes we spend a lot of life-time refusing to look His way, but when we come to ourselves, thankfully He lovingly says...

"Sure, baby, I'd love to."




Switching gears a bit...Job got some really exciting news today...he's all smiles...(hmmm...just what does that letter say?)...


...more on that tomorrow...gotta grab a wink...or two!

Take Care. Much Love.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Looking Forward to Lent...and Loving More.

I started a Lenten Daniel Fast...with Craig. I'm looking forward to drawing closer to God (always the best place to be). I'm in the early midst of a shifting spiritual season. For those of you who know what I mean...please pray for me. For those of you who don't...I'm praying for you.  :o) ...(really, I am)...

Let me know if you'd like to learn more about Lent and/or the Daniel Fast. If you're lurking (and want to keep it that way :o)  check out the resource and link below for some good information from a trustworthy source:

"LENT: Join the Lenten Journey. Listen to and Read daily messages on this site. Increase your prayer time with the help of http://www.vashtimckenzie.blogspot.com/; ...Information about the Daniel Fast is in the Read archive. Invite others to join you!"

The great thing about being aware of the Lenten season is that there is no risk and just nothing to lose...only so much to gain. It's not about what you give up or take on, but rather about simply moving closer in relationship with God (wherever you are on your journey with Him). No guilt, no must-tos or have-tos, no pomp and circumstance, no feelings of failure...simply listening...and learning...and choosing to unfold your heart...to Him...because He loves you...simply...deeply...beautifully. He is always glad to see your face and hear your voice...like a friend...but just so much more...who holds your heart so carefully and joyfully in every season of your life, and is always genuinely delighted to hear from you...and doesn't run in the opposite direction from your big uglies. You can trust God to truly love you. You...(yes, you)...are so very precious to Him. I hope you choose to let Him love you.

I know that I can not live (really...I can not) without Him.

Much Love. Take Care.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

My Love

Since our computer system that stores most of our photos has decided to take a breather (!?!!?), I thought this would be a wonderful opportunity to share a favorite close-up...that's always with me...in my phone...of my love...see that cute dimple?  ;-) 

Much Love. Take Care.
  

Monday, March 7, 2011

Spring is Springing!


Just look what was waiting to surprise and delight me around a bend in the road today! Such a sweet cheery purpley fresh gift from God!


These brave early flowers must mean spring is not far behind.

Come, Spring, come!
We wait to welcome you with arms flung wide in gleeful anticipation!



And...as if that was not enough unexpected delight...I found my lost camera today...after weeks of wondering where it had gotten to. It was simply hibernating under my car seat...but emerged just in time to celebrate the springly joy of these flower pioneers. Welcome back old friend...I've missed you.

Much love. Take care.

...just one more...


[contented sigh].......................[contented sigh again]

  

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Daily Blogging?...Solution!

Johngideon.
Disney.
2006...exactly six weeks after Montgomery was born.
I wasn't in search of a crazy experience;
we'd simply booked Disney a year in advance...
...but it only takes 9 months to cook a lil' baby!  :-)

That look on his face (complete with spit bubble)
made all the traveling-with-newborn challenges worth it.


So...what's with this photo anyway? Let's take the long road to the answer...

To provide an update on progress thus far on my 2011 daily blogging fun challenge for myself, I must share the following: I have found that I really enjoy the reflective pause of life that (attempted) daily blogging provides requires. However, I have also found that oftentimes the realities of my predictable day-to-day-mother-of-five-unpredictability do not provide the quantitative life space necessary for true qualitative reflective blogging...especially when I desire to share so much because I feel (most days) that everyday life is wonderfully interesting and varied and and somehow incomprehensibly strangely joyously beautiful.

So, what to do? 

Aha...the solution makes me smile!

I have been wishing lately that I had uncovered the joys of blogging many years ago when my oldest children were small. I wish I had kept such an unfolding record of their delightful discoverings of the world around them to enjoy with them in the years we share now and the sharing years to come. While I don't have the narrative, I do have so many beautiful photographs...of so many beautiful smiles, and frowns, and messes, and marvels, and my heart routinely floods with reminiscent joy and wonder every time I view any of them.

This is too much delight for one heart to hold alone. Journey with me, please, as I enjoy posting "blasts" a few times per week...just the odd here-and-there photographs that tell bits and pieces of our story from before...in random years...at random times. While these may indeed be blasts from our past, the word blast just doesn't quite reflect my heartjoy in the remembering...but I just can't think of the right word to use at the moment (or, for that matter, for the past two weeks of moments that this idea has been marinating). When the word unmistakably settles itself in my mind, that's what I'll call these posts of previousness. In the meantime, I hope you'll enjoy (as much as I know I shall) the frequently occasional blasts from our past that show up here....from time to time...randomly.

Much Love. Take Care.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Off to Learn Squash


Johngideon wanted to learn to play squash.
So Joby took him.

He loved it...and wants to play again...and again...and again.

We'll just have to make that happen.

Much Love. Take Care.

 

Friday, March 4, 2011

The Unthinkable

So, it's taken me awhile to post this one, because...it's confession time...we have done the unthinkable (but TRUST ME, we will NEVER do it again!)...we [gulp]...kinda [cold sweat]...sorta [giant throat lump]...maybe [dropping crocodile tears now]...forgot AUNTIE'S BIRTHDAY!! UGH!!!!!

Yes...I know...we are equally horrified here.

And yes, I learned earlier this week that NOBODY forgets birthdays anymore, because apparently Facebook sends reminders to all of your "friends" on your birthday, letting them know it's your birthday, so you can paste (is that even the right word) birthday messages on their boards...or is it wall? So, we are therefore now embarrassed and outed...NO, we have not joined the Facebook Nation!...yet...because now I imagine we'll have to, if for no other reason than to receive the handy birthday reminders!

However...as it's said in certain parts of the country...in certain neighborhoods (of which I, yes, have been acquainted ;o)...LET THA RECKA SHO we have NEVER (and I DO mean NEVER) forgotten Auntie's birthday before...ever...really!

I just don't know what happened! Yes, it was a very busy week. And yes I had a meeting and other running-around-stuff going on that day that I don't normally do. And yes, Craig did explode the platter of fresh-from-the-hot-oven-but-placed-on-a-cold-tile-counter fish all over the kitchen and the other uncovered dishes he had prepared for dinner that day (including a very-unusual-for-us platter of freshly fried chicken). But really, now, it is just shameful! Two weeks prior I was even discussing with my mother-in-law the fact that Joanne's birthday was on the horizon. And then I must have blanked out until this previous Wednesday (four days after her birthday, mind you), when I had this moment of cold panic (in the bathroom of course), and called Craig moaning "WHEN was the 20th??" "Did we see Joanne that day?" And poor oblivious Craig says, "that was Sunday" and "sure, she was here, for a while" rather calmly until I dropped the gut-wrenching "Craig, we missed her birthday! Sunday was her birthday!" [Stunned silence.]

Yes, so now we are doubly horrified, as I'm sure you are too, because not only did we forget her birthday, like distantly on the telephone, but we forgot her birthday sitting around...chatting with her...in person.

Fortunately, Joanne, our children's dearly beloved Auntie and our dearly beloved sister, forgave us (and can you believe never even mentioned it) and still came with Adrian (her beaux) to visit us this past weekend...


...(and with a big trunkful of the children's favorite items from Costco...how's that for unconditional love), where we had a beautiful pink strawberry cake with fresh strawberries (she likes frutti-patutti stuff) waiting...


...with a certain number of candles on it  ;o)  and a gift she'll enjoy, and Josiah (her dearly beloved Godson) had made her some chocolate-covered strawberries...and we had a nice, noisy dinner...


...and sang a nice, soulful Stevie Wonder version "Happy Birthday" song...


...and shared the love...



...and talked and laughed, and promised her and ourselves (in the words of Tiana from Princess and The Frog) to NEVER, never, never, ever, evah, NEVAH forget...her birthday...again.  [Facebook, here we come!]


We love you Auntie Jo-Jo!

Take Care. Much Love.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Running


I love this older photo. I think he'd stolen Joby's hat. He didn't get too far...

...in flip-flops.   :o)

Much Love. Take Care.



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